Saturday, June 28, 2008

Flame of Friendship

Blogging just isn't the same without friends, dontcha think? ;) Got this tag from Janeth:

Flame of Friendship
The Flame of Friendship

A symbol of spirit of unity.
The burning icon of love.
Undying picture of hope.
The hot symbol of oneness.
The Flame of Friendship.

And now it's your turn to flame yourself!

Meet new friends. Discover friendship. Make bonds.
Copy this post starting from the PICTURE ABOVE to the end
and add your blog on the list below.
Let's start FLAMING!

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The People Who Accepted The Flame of Friendship
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Tiklaton: We are the witness
Janeth Vicy's Life Journey
Muthahood Crib

(now, you follow!)
OOOPSS!! Don't forget to invite your friends!
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Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Upgrading Blogger's Comments Feature

Blogger Buster Competition Announcement

I love having a blogger blog. It's so intuitive - and a LOT easier than I had anticipated. Though I must confess, I looked at possibly switching to Wordpress and when I figured out the difference between wordpress.com and wordpress.org - I said, "Oh no. No friggin' way. I am SO not that savvy."

One of the biggest temptations to move was the variety of so many beautiful templates - and how can we forget CommentLuv? But after some searching, I found lots of really cool Blogger templates, and learned how to make my blog a No No Follow blog.

:)

But do you ever think to yourself, "I wish Blogger had THIS feature."

Like your blog was missing something?

I have. And I know I'm not the only one. Blogger even has a wishlist page to collect all of our suggestions. Wanna know what my wishlist item would be?

AN UPGRADE IN COMMENTS:
  1. Comment form beneath each post, without the need to click over


  2. Ability to respond to individual comments separately, with blog author's replies showing just beneath each reader's comment

  3. CommentLuv - Blogger style!

You probably recall that one of my fave resources for blogging is Amanda over at Blogger Buster, who is holding an incredible competition in an effort to raise awareness of the features we'd MOST like to see in Blogger. Well, that, and it's her blog's 1st birthday. :) You've got to check out these amazing prizes!!

So tell us, what new features would YOU like to see? Hope you join in on this community project!!

Dette

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Taking It Off Together Tuesday #1

Yikes.

It's my first week to report out since I joined this meme last week. You would've thought that the idea alone of having to share my results would've given me the incentive - or inspiration - to actually try to lose some weight.

Hmph.

Well, let me first begin by owning up, er... updating you on what I worked on last week, health wise:
  • Had my daily double dose of chocolate
  • Snuck into a couple of grape and strawberry laffy taffy's and even a tootsie roll pop
  • Ate to my heart's (and stomach's) content
Well golly gee willakers - no surprise on my findings over the last week:

RESULTS: 0.5 gain

Doh!

My weight fluctuated all week. And today? I am actually at square one - totally even from when I joined last week. But that doesn't count since we do our weigh-in's on Mondays.

Some new things I will try this week:
  • Exercise, at least 3X this week, for a minimum of 20 mins each session
  • NOT reading or anything else while eating
  • Drinking 2 liters a day
If you plurk with me, you've probably already heard me wishing I could STOP eating when my I'm full, instead of when I'm completely stuffed.

I'm gonna work on that. Yes on hunger satisfaction. No on stuffing my face.

There are some amazing results, though, with the rest of the gang. Check out these numbers!

Chris - 1.0 loss!
Tammy - 5.0 loss!
Life With Hashi-Thyroid Blog -1.0 loss!
Grace - 0.8 loss!
Leigh - 3.0 GAIN! ARG!
Clara - 5.0 loss!
Dette - 0.5 gain
Julie - 0 (first week! Welcome aboard!)

Total of 9.3 lost! You go girls!

And special thanks to Leigh for coordinating our Weight Loss Tuesday Meme!!

UPDATE:
Weight Loss Goal - lose 28.5 lbs by December 1, 2008

Dette

Monday, June 23, 2008

Sharing the Love Award

I received this special "Sharing the Love" award from Sue at Stay at Home Mom, who received it from Spice from Spice World, who received it from Crystal at Memoirs of a Mommy.

Sharing the Love Award

Here's the skinny on this extra-special award:
“The rules of this award are: SHARE THE LOVE!!! Share this award with all those blogs out there that you love. All the people who make you smile. All those that make you laugh. All those that make your day. All those that leave uplifting comments on your blog. **All I ask, is that you include a link to this post with the award and ask your recipient to do the same**

As you may have recently seen on my side bar, I have finally created a custom blog award!! I have wanted to do this for a long time but never came up with something that “fit”. I didn’t want just anything. It had to be something that meant something to me. And what could mean more than Sharing the Love by giving you pieces of my heart??

So I created this award in Honor Of The Donor That Saved Noah’s Life. I share this award with those of you whose love and friendship have enriched my life and made my world a better place.

I hope by passing this award around the blogging world we can all help raise awareness of the need for Organ Donation.”

Thanks, Sue, for thinking of me!! I would LOVE to share this special award with:


Dette

Saturday, June 21, 2008

In One Word

Unfortunately, I can be quite a talker - as Skinny Ass like to complain at times. Well, what the hell does he expect? It's kinda classic, though:
  • He yaks away all day at work and wants some quiet when he gets home
  • As a WAHM I've been home all day, so I'm ready to yak by the time he walks in
So you can imagine, this wasn't very easy for me... My friend Carole tagged me with this:

One Word Meme

1. Where is your cell phone? Kitchen
2. Your significant other? Hubz
3. Your hair? Short
4. Your mother? Mama
5. Your father? Papa
6. Your favorite thing? LMAO
7. Your dream last night? Nada
8 Your favorite drink? Water
9. Your dream/goal? Fulfillment
10. The room you’re in? Office
11. Your hobby? Reading
12. Your fear? Absence
13. Where do you want to be in 6 years? Debt-Free
14. What you’re not? Unhappy
15. Muffins? Tops
16. One of your wish list items? Date-Nights
17. Where you grew up? San Diego
18. The last thing you did? Cleaned
19. What are you wearing? Pajamas
20. Favorite Gadget? Laptop
21. Your pets? Crazy
22. Your computer? Everything
23. Your mood? Tired
24. Missing someone? Mama!
25. Your car? Mini-van
26. Something you’re not wearing? Make-up
27. Favorite store? Amazon.com
28. Like someone? Friends
29. Your favorite color? Burgundy
30. When is the last time you laughed? Today
31. Last time you cried? UGH

Guess what, folks?

I'm tagging 52 Faces, Can of Thoughts, Faery Dancing, The Soccer Mom Files and Verabear :)

Dette

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

His First Dive

Who says you can't pull off a weekend trip at the last minute?

We were supposed to head to San Diego for 11 days, but ended up canceling for a couple of reasons that you probably won't hear me talking about.

In truth, JC started summer school to get ahead in high school - so missing class would get him dropped. In honesty, there's also some shit going on that canceled out the whole purpose of the trip.

But Hubby wasn't going to let a little drama screw up some fun for the family, and insisted we go on a trip anyway. We just switched our destination to Orange County for a visit with Snoopy and the Gang at Knott's Berry Farm.

I think it was the first time all five of us were able to get on a ride all at once, and damn, the weather was perfect for a splash in "The Log Ride."

I had Joel right in front of me, with my arms wrapped around his teeny lil' body, hand rested on his chest. JC was in front of him, and scooted back to make Joel feel more secure. Jacob was at the VERY front, sitting with Hubz.

He LOVED playing the tourist, waving at the characters inside, telling me about everything he saw. But at the very end, after climbing that mini-steep hill and rushing down for a splash...

I could feel his little heartbeat racing.

He wasn't too sure how he felt about that ride after that.

No crying. No screaming. Nothing.

And afterwards, he'd said to me, "I scared. I scared, Mom."

But he must've gotten over it, coz later, when JC and I were riding the "Silver Bullet" (never again, BTW. That shit messes with your equilibrium, for sure!) - Hubz took Joel and Jacob BACK to The Log Ride.

*wicked smile*

I'm saving that priceless photo for tomorrow's Wordless Wednesday at the Dance of Motherhood. ;)

UPDATE: Photo's up! You tell me - is it sheer terror...? Or delight?


Dette

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Breast Cancer Awareness

If you've had a chance to drop by at Dance of Motherhood, then you already know why this particular post comes with such incredible timing.

From Earthling Gorgeous and Janeth Vicy comes a tag with a great cause:

The Breast Cancer Site

The National Breast Cancer Foundation estimates that each year, over 200,000 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer and over 40,000 die. One woman in eight either has or will develop breast cancer in her lifetime. Approximately 1,700 men will be diagnosed with breast cancer and 450 will die each year.

If detected early, the five-year survival rate for breast cancer exceeds 96%. Mammograms are among the best early detection methods, yet 13 million U.S. women 40 years of age or older have never had a mammogram.

The National Cancer Institute and U.S. Department of Health and Human Services recommend that women in their forties and older have mammograms every one to two years. A complete early detection plan also includes regular clinical breast examinations by a trained medical professional. Monthly breast self-exams are suggested in addition.

Early Detection/Prevention is better than CURE as ALWAYS!

If you are afraid of going to the doctor for a mammogram then do a personal breast-exam, you can do it alone or with your partner to add more fun to it. It's best to do the every month a week before your period.

Here's the easiest way to do a self-breast exam:

The Five Steps of a Breast Self-Exam

Step 1: Begin by looking at your breasts in the mirror with your shoulders straight and your arms on your hips.

Here's what you should look for: breasts that are their usual size, shape, and color
breasts that are evenly shaped without visible distortion or swelling.

If you see any of the following changes, bring them to your doctor's attention:

1. dimpling,
2. puckering or bulging of the skin,
3, a nipple that has changed position or an inverted nipple (pushed inward instead of sticking out),
4. redness, soreness, rash, or swelling

Step 2: Now, raise your arms and look for the same changes.

Step 3: While you're at the mirror, gently squeeze each nipple between your finger and thumb and check for nipple discharge (this could be a milky or yellow fluid or blood).

Step 4: Next, feel your breasts while lying down, using your right hand to feel your left breast and then your left hand to feel your right breast. Use a firm, smooth touch with the first few fingers of your hand, keeping the fingers flat and together.

Cover the entire breast from top to bottom, side to side—from your collarbone to the top of your abdomen, and from your armpit to your cleavage.

Follow a pattern to be sure that you cover the whole breast. You can begin at the nipple, moving in larger and larger circles until you reach the outer edge of the breast. You can also move your fingers up and down vertically, in rows, as if you were mowing a lawn. Be sure to feel all the breast tissue: just beneath your skin with a soft touch and down deeper with a firmer touch. Begin examining each area with a very soft touch, and then increase pressure so that you can feel the deeper tissue, down to your ribcage.

Step 5: Finally, feel your breasts while you are standing or sitting. Many women find that the easiest way to feel their breasts is when their skin is wet and slippery, so they like to do this step in the shower. Cover your entire breast, using the same hand movements described in Step 4.

To find out other ways to do the self-breast-examination go to this website.


I am passing this to anyone who is a mother, wife, daughter, sister... or anyone who has a mother, wife, daughter, sister... anyone who can stand behind breast cancer research and free mammograms for those who can't pay for them on their own...

Dette

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Sparkle Friends


Got a purdy tag from my friend, Roselle:

Glitter Photos

To keep this going, I’m tagging 5 of my blogger friends:

A Mommy's Life, That Crazy Mom, This Woman's Blog,
Irresistible Fascinations & Me and My World


Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Mom and Dad Bloggers List

Mom Bloggers Guild

Wouldn't it be neat to have a list of our favorite Mom Bloggers? And our favorite Dad Bloggers?

I notice I tend to gravitate towards Mom Bloggers (to relate? empathize?) but LOVE to see the dad's perspective as well.

For Mother's Day, we kicked off a list to celebrate Mom Bloggers, and we're doing the same now for Father's Day, in honor of Dad Bloggers everywhere.

Just for kicks, we threw in 5,000 entrecard credits in there, but you know what? It's not even about the EC's - I almost wish I took that out. But I didn't want to go back on my word.

In any case - I hope you'll help me put this fine list together, for both moms and dads. Being the host of the Mom Bloggers Guild and the upcoming Dad Bloggers Guild, I would've loved to share my own personal faves, but didn't want to be biased, so I'm really hoping you can share your thoughts.

So if you want to nominate a fellow mom or dad blogger, or if you'd like to be included on the list, leave a comment here (for Moms) or here (for Dads).

And grab some bling if you'd like!

Dette

Monday, June 9, 2008

Daddy's Corner

You know what I love about moving to a small town?

It doesn't take Dad an hour to drive home anymore. So now, he can pop in to surprise us during a doctor's visit, or take a long lunch to help carpool for one of JC's basketball games.

He can join in on Parent/Teacher Conferences, and hang out with Joel if I need to head out for an appointment. He can even drop by with lunch (or ice cream!) for Mom.

:)

Best of all, though... was when he became the Head Coach/Manager for Jacob's little league team. He'd leave the hotel early for practice or a game, when I could NEVER get him home before 7pm.

And there's something about watching your man with the kids that just makes him so darn... sexy. ;)

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I was tagged by Vhiel for Daddy's Corner:

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Started by Mitchteryosa

Rules:
  1. Copy from {Start Copy Here} to {End Copy Here}.
  2. Blog Brag about your husband - yes, the father of your child/ren. As I’ve said singles may also join by bragging about their own fathers, or even grandfathers. It doesn’t matter! Of course, Daddy bloggers themselves may also join, but you have to blog about your fathers and not about yourselves, deal? Okay. Good.
  3. Add your blog in the master list below linking to the post that you just made. Or if you wish, do it as how I’ve done it in my other blog by adding a new page.
  4. Leave your comment here and don't forget to leave your link so you can be added on the masterlist. Yup. Here. Thanks!
  5. Let’s not forget Peppermint Creative for the corner border I used for the badge.
Master List
  1. When Silence Speaks
  2. Everything About Deye
  3. Etc Atbp
  4. Pinay Mommy Online
  5. Coffee Cup Princess
  6. Pinaymama's Dairy
  7. A Mother of Yesterday, Today & Tomorrow,
  8. Everything that has Breathe Praise the Lord,
  9. Kate Ashley,
  10. Top Form Secrets
  11. Marilyn
  12. Anything and Everything in Between
  13. Can of Thoughts
  14. Dance of Motherhood
  15. Muthahood Crib
  16. You're Next....
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Dette

Thursday, June 5, 2008

There's Something Rotten in Denmark

What's your MBTI?

I took the full version (Myers Briggs Typology Test) years ago (10+ years ago actually), which involved an entire day's session of over 300+ people during a conference in Hawaii. Our Regional Vice President wanted to give our General Managers and their spouses another way to learn about each other, as well as our fellow associates.

Hawaii? For a conference? We went 3 years in a row. (Sigh) Those were the good ol' days. Which even included a middle of the day quickie during one of the breaks. lol - I bet Skinny Ass misses those days, too!

Anyhoo - when I first took the test, I was an ISFJ. Skinny Ass was an ENTJ. Total opposites except for the last piece. Though if your read about my Joys of Working from Home, you might've already known I was a "J". Ummm - I should probably mention that there's a hint of sarcasm in that title. ;)

I took a mini-version of the test again a few years ago - it almost stayed the same, except the second piece was borderlined between S (Sensing) and N (Intuitive).

Earthly Explorations tagged me with a short version of the Myers-Brigges Typology Test.

My type is: INFJ.

And what the hell is an INFJ?

Beneath the quiet exterior, INFJs hold deep convictions about the weightier matters of life. Those who are activists -- INFJs gravitate toward such a role -- are there for the cause, not for personal glory or political power.

INFJs are champions of the oppressed and downtrodden. They often are found in the wake of an emergency, rescuing those who are in acute distress. INFJs may fantasize about getting revenge on those who victimize the defenseless. The concept of 'poetic justice' is appealing to the INFJ.

"There's something rotten in Denmark." Accurately suspicious about others' motives, INFJs are not easily led. These are the people that you can rarely fool any of the time. Though affable and sympathetic to most, INFJs are selective about their friends. Such a friendship is a symbiotic bond that transcends mere words.

INFJs have a knack for fluency in language and facility in communication. In addition, nonverbal sensitivity enables the INFJ to know and be known by others intimately.

Writing, counseling, public service and even politics are areas where INFJs frequently find their niche... -Joe Butt


My Results:

Introverted (44)
iNtuitive (25)
Feeling (25)
Judging (11)

More on the full INFJ profile

Your turn to do the test!

Yes, you! I'm also tagging Syn, Mommy Moments, Pinay Jade and That Crazy Mom. :)


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The Myers-Briggs typology test. Imagine, finding the blog of another person that shares a similar (or maybe even the same) personality type as you.

If you are curious to see what personality traits others bloggers have and what dominant type of person fills the pages of the blogosphere with anything from personal journals to information rich SEO blogs.


RULES:
1) Do the test.
2) Post your result on your blog.
3) Go to OMB’s blog and message him so he can include you in the compilation of test takers and their results post in his blog.
4) Post your link here after the person who tagged you.Outside My Brain; Earthly Explorations; Muthahood Crib; YOUR LINK HERE
5) Pass this tag to every blogger you wish to take the test.
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Dette

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

The Sistah Blog

And where the hell have I been?

I've been sneaking in a post or two, here and there, at the Dance of Motherhood. With just enough time to visit commenters and NO time for bloghoppin' or droppin' (entre) cards. It's been nUtS.

Graduation, potty training - guess you can't get much done when you're in the bathroom every half hour. This week is the last week of school for my 1st grader, so it's activities galore and my volunteer hours shoot up. Even if I'm back at work now. I took last week off, but - shit. Time just flies.

I've been wanting to set up a sister blog for a while now... Someplace casual and fun, a place to host tags and contests and lotsa linky love. ;)

Besides, the design over there is SO damn formal - I mean, it's pretty and all - and I LOVE it, but it's so girly, I wanted something to reflect a little more of my personality.

And it's finally here! This is where you'll find all of the above, plus all future Standing Ovation Awards, Recent Entrecard Advertisers and any other announcements.

Plus a dose of any behind the scenes action from its sistah blog.

Welcome to my crib. The Muthahood Crib.

Dette
 

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